Big Hugs RTL. I've been reading your posts and really wishing that you werent in the crappy situation that you are in, but not feeling like I had anything more to add!
You are making progress in your DB - keep up the good work. It does sound like you are in the very fast, very scary part of the roller-coaster. What an up and down 2 weeks or so you have had.
I promise you that you will be OK and it will get better, even if it doesn't feel like it at the moment. You are getting good advice (I like SPM's comments especially). Detaching is the key, but its a bit like learning how to balance on a bike. You cant explain it or really think about it.... then all of a sudden you are up and riding the bike (a bit wobbly at the start). Keep aiming to lovingly detaching from W and W's drama.
