W not angry any more and wants to work on the M

[Lanzo]

Last night I was going to go to bed without pushing W for kind of talk, or any hugs or kisses, it was just going to be watch TV for a while then both of us of to sleep.

Anyway at lights out, through the darkness W asks me where was I, so I moved my head closer to her and we had a couple of reasonably passionate kisses. Then we embraced and W strokes my arm and says "oh honey" a couple of times, these words were loaded with heavy sighs. I really thought she was on the point of opening up about the R but she held back any more words and just snuggled up to me more and fell a sleep. Oh well maybe she'll talk later

It's funny cos now I can be this close to W and have my hands all over her (as long a I don't go south of the border) and she doesn't flinch. A few weeks ago any slight contact would have had her jumping out of the bed, even when she appeared to be in a deep sleep. Also it's been a long time since she's called me honey, that was really nice to hear.

So if I focus in the things that W is doing as opposed to what she's not doing, then I'd say things are moving along slowly but nicely.