I hear ya. I ask ny wife if ahe wants things to work but even when she says yes she does EVERYTHING in her power to make this a one way effort...mine. she leaves our dates early to go with friends and she is moving out on sunday.
Well, to be honest, at the moment, it is a one way effort.
So? Is it worth it to you? You are the only one you can control, and holding resentment over this would be a death knell.
I have no answers for you, of course. (Gee, is that a recurring theme or what?) Your call.
