Hello all I have not posted in a while. Actually I have been through a lot latelly. I will update my sitch when it is the time. I have decided to reply to you because I emailed OW, she has just repplied like this- I am sorry about what happened, I am in a steady realionship right know and I wish you success. I felt so low, so above her that all I can say is that I repplied back telling her that I wished her from my heart happiness and peace. I truly found out that in the end of the day it is him who has brought me pain.It is all about him. It is all about his choice and it is all about my concept of happiness. Do not waste your time with OP. Do waste your time with what you want to be the rest if your life.That is what will make you happy and define the ones that surround you. My best wishes. Hope you are stronger than I was. Be sure that there is someone watching over you.