OMG, I totally missed allof this. Wow, you're awesome, Suzy. Your X is such a romantic. Too bad that guy got away.
Makes me wonder about the woman who looks at a man like him and thinks that he is a good catch. Let's see, he cheated on his wife of 20+ years, blamed it all on her, acted like an ass through the divorce process, would only agree to the bare minimum for supporting his kids....yep, he's a keeper. LOL
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
It is 11:00 and everyone is in bed. I am still a little stunned, but not the least bit surprised he got married yesterday. I told everyone I knew back in january that he would marry her on V-day , it just seemed like something the alien H would do. S8 was a bit emotionasl and out of sorts tonight. I think this is going to be particularly rough on him, because he is the most innocent of the kids and probably believed his dad when he kept insisting OW was just a friend. So having dad marry the friend so soon after the divorce has to confuse him. And he is the one who told me just two weeks ago that if he could have one wish it would be to haev his family back, so I think part of him still believed that was possible. My heart breaks for him.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
Well, I got a wild hair and decided to sign up for an online dating sight last night. I now have a bunch of e-mails from guys who checked me out. I'm scared!!!!! LOL
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
SSSOOOOOOO,Suzy, have you responded to any of the emails????? Don't be scared.....just smart!! You know the usual: public place, etc. I know 2 people who met really special people this way so it does work. Meanwhile, I know you intention is to go out there and have fun! Keep us posted!
SSSOOOOOOO,Suzy, have you responded to any of the emails????? Don't be scared.....just smart!! You know the usual: public place, etc. I know 2 people who met really special people this way so it does work. Meanwhile, I know you intention is to go out there and have fun! Keep us posted!
I haven't responded yet, I plan on doing it later. I did have an IM conversation with a man who saw my profile and was interested. :::gulp::: He gave me his e-mail and phone number. LOL Got to get up my courage to contact him.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn