Happy Valentine's! My H gave me a card for the day saying from the kids of course, and I'm 99% positive he regifted the OW's present to him a teddy bear with I heart you candy's to my D8, after she gave him her present. He ran to the car and came back with it where it was hidden. My H is not the type to have planned ahead to have gotten a gift for her! Is that tacky or what? I said how sweet of you to have gotten a special gift for her as if he really had done that (but I think I know him too well)!
Condor, I think you are right, my H is being a big time cake eater! I wonder what will happen with that. Right now I feel prepared to sit and wait for a while although I wouldn't want to be in a situation for years with a husband with an OW. I would assume the OW wouldn't want to be in that situation either. I wonder if she will at some point get tired of waiting for H to finish the house/get separated/divorced. I guess then she might force the decision, or at some point if this drags out forever I would also want to. I wish he would at some point just end the R with the OW; but he is probably having a great time, so why should he at this point? Maybe as it drags on she will start nagging, begging, pleading, showing some unattractiveness, and/or the fantasy will wear off, and maybe that would help make the decision for him but maybe I am just wishful thinking.
I need to go get some sleep. I just had a 3 hour dance rehearsal and will have another tomorrow morning. One of the teens said tonight I was the "coolest mom ever". Isn't that sweet? Karen43
