Confusion of a WAW (Thread 7)

[JennyF]

OK Brit,
I just read the IM's and I totall agree with Lizzy...WTF?!

Unless you haven't been sharing some info with us, this seems totally backwards. In fact a few times I had to look back over to the left to see if it was a "M" or a "W" beside the comment!

W: you made a lot of poor decisions, and I made a lot of mistakes in dealing with it
(4:23:02 PM) M: I know I did
(4:23:08 PM) M: I am not at all proud of anything that I have done
(4:23:23 PM) W: I know
(4:24:17 PM) W: I forgive you for it, but I can't forget about it
(4:24:39 PM) M: I appreciate your forgiveness
(4:24:45 PM) M: and I don't expect you to forget
(4:27:09 PM) W: I am trying to respect you and I'm trying to be compassionate

It just sounds through the whole thing like she's putting all the blame on you and not making herself accountable for anything. And I must have missed something...is she talking about things from your M? Sorry if I'm prying, you don't have to explain if you don't want to.

And the kisses and hugs and ILY's...wasn't she the one doing this? I know you pretty much follow her lead on this stuff don't you?

I do, but I'm starting to get the feeling that you are interpreting that as meaning that I want to get back together
(4:30:44 PM) M: no, I took it as you and I being friends
(4:30:47 PM) M: and taking care of D
(4:31:20 PM) W: that was my intention
(4:31:43 PM) W: but I'm not so sure if friendship is possible when one person is wanting more than the other

Do you know what you did that make her think you were wanting more...or is she saying this because she knows you want more?
Like KerryK said...you're in a lose lose sitch because no matter what you do she's not happy.
So back WAY off. Don't even except her invites or help with the house anymore. And try to stick closely to your schedule with your D (that's always your advice to me too!).
I'm feeling a little bitter tonight...sorry if that come across in my post!
J~