OMG, I totally missed allof this. Wow, you're awesome, Suzy. Your X is such a romantic. Too bad that guy got away.
Makes me wonder about the woman who looks at a man like him and thinks that he is a good catch. Let's see, he cheated on his wife of 20+ years, blamed it all on her, acted like an ass through the divorce process, would only agree to the bare minimum for supporting his kids....yep, he's a keeper. LOL
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn