(((Jeff)))

I found your new thread! I think it's the first one I've ever seen with a near the title!

You have lots of time to prepare for the "discussion", so you should really prep for how you want to approach it. Do you want to tell her what you want and then ask what she wants? Do you want to completely throw the ball into her court? Do you want to give her specific options (either we start MC by X date or you're outta there)? Do you want to ask her out on a date?

I feel a little funny trying to give advice on this subject, because I don't think that it's necessarily DBing. I just think you have to know what YOU want before you approach her. What if she asks you what you want??!!! Do you even know? Be prepared!

Wasn't that cake awesome? Yum!


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08