Thanks, She actually only sees me occasionally and I am always happy and looking great. I know she notices. When I speak with her I am calm (180). As usually I got a text from her to tell me about a fun yoga class our kids just started. I did text her back and said great, sound fun. That's it I didn't use it as a chance to show her emotions. I have the kids for the next 4 days for a fun weekend at the cottage with another couple and their kids. It will be great for everyone. My guess it will be hard on my wife not being in contact. I am sure she will text but I will be cool to respond. Tonight I started flight school to get my private pilots licence. I have done EVERYTHING possible for myself, kids and family since this happened. Career is great, I am in shape with a trainer, going to IC, reading so many books on marriage, starting to fly. So many of my friends have been commenting that I am now the ultimate husband. Hopefully I will get to the point soon that her actions don't effect me so much and accept that if she does no want me then that is what fate is to deliver. Of course I want my family back together.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
Just keep doing the good stuff and try to stay positive. Also, keep giving her plenty of space for now (I know that's difficult, but you both need it). Definitely don't respond to text messages, or calls right away. Take your time so she realizes you are busy leading a great life. Make sure you are letting her contact you more than you are contacting her.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
