OMG! You guys are too funny!!! OW jibe agency... hummmm. You have no idea how naughty I could be with this (and have been!). Oh gosh!!! Sometimes I get ideas and have to keep myself from doing them, but there have been moments when it's just too tempting to when I know it's a safe little way to help make OW's life just a little bit miserable.
I'm kind of lucky because my husband's OW was an easy target. She was married and wanted to be married. Ooooooh! Fun for me....
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