Does he care what *you* want out of the relationship??? Timing, nature, etc??? I see no sign of it from what you've posted.
He makes decisions and sticks with them .... ok. First, you've just met each other in person and already he's making long term plans .....o-kaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy. And what about *your* decisions?
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert