Well guys, from a ladies perspective, I totally get the 29-31 days. However, I am a firm believer that men go through a similar cycle. I could swear my H has had some major rounds of PMS.
Maybe he's the type of alien where it's the male who gestates
Originally Posted By: lizzy
Anyway, I do think there is a lot more to it with Brit's wife. As I was reading the IMs I just kept thinking WTF is she talking about. She is so confused Brit. Maybe if she would tell you from the get go what her intentions are, she wouldn't feel so pressured by you.
I'm curious which parts you are wtfing over, if not all of it She just seems to be in full on panic mode, probably because we were spending time together and she got used to it, then was all "wtf? I don't like that, do I?". I guess, to use the analogy, she ran back in her castle made of crap. I'll give her a week before she is broke again though - She has been getting of easy recently with food and other things, since we either eat out together, or we'll go out and buy things and bring it home to make.
Honestly, I have hardly initiated ANY contact in the last two weeks. This week alone she invited me over for dinner, out for dinner, then showed up at my doorstep with hot chocolate on Wednesday. Today is the first day in six weeks that we have not spent some time together.
I really don't think she gets at all that I'm not mad at her, or am going to lash out (in whatever sense) if she tells me the truth. Obviously brining it up gets us no where, although I'm always confused why she accuses me of snooping whenever I talk about OM like that. Anyone with a brain would surmise that maybe if I snooped and, say, read her e-mail, that there would be 'evidence' of her behavior with OM. Her reaction just seems totally wrong for someone with nothing to hide.