Any suggestions or comments how to proceed? The on-line thing seems so impersonal, plus I heard on NPR yesterday that eHarmony is 68% women, so the chances of finding a compatible male there are slim.
The chances of finding a compatible woman on eHarmony are pretty slim! As a former subscriber (twice), I have less than zero faith in their questionnaires and matching algorithms now.
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I have a feeling other dating sites might be the same way.
I think most of the sites are predominantly male, and you would pretty much have to pick and choose from the guys who tried to contact you. The ladies here can give you a lot more advice about that.
Plentyoffish.com is free, if you want to "get practice" without spending a lot on the subscription fees.
Are you in a hurry to start dating, though? If you and your WAH were back together at home just last fall, you have plenty of reason to take your time about going back out there if you like. It's not like we're required to get into a relationship, or even to go on a lot of dates, just because we get divorced.
Thanks,
Joe
Oh, and how about a Guinness for the first post!
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