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That is why I said your exH was the best chance for you to work through your issues. These other men are not going to have the patience to do that.


In what alternate universe are you imagining my ex as someone with the patience to work through issues, sexual or otherwise? Are you seriously suggesting that I get back together with a man who is currently living in an efficiency apartment on the street where the hookers work in Denver, making $7 an hour, not paying child support, not talking to either of his parents, almost certainly drinking too much and not taking the ADs a slew of psychiatrists agreed he was in need of.. the man with whom I had sex 3x in the same week maybe 3x in the whole course of our marriage? Whatever my current difficulties/issues may be, I can assure you that the interactions that I have had with other men since my split have thoroughly made it clear to me that my 2bx and I were extremely sexually incompatible. I am WAY out of his f*cking league, both literally and figuratively.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver