Thanks for the VD (Valentine's Day not the other, MC) greetings everyone
Well... I'm glad THAT day is over. First time in 12 years I didn't get flowers from H. I didn't expect them and yet.. I "expected them" - if you know what I mean. I think he felt guilty, though, because he made dinner, cleaned up, and plopped a glass of wine in front of me when I got home... So, at least I didn't have to lift a finger.
Weird conversation then happened... Nothing different - we are still d'ing - except that H is finally realizing and accepting the fact that two people are responsible for the demise of our marriage. It wasn't just my fault.. even in the beginning, he now sees how he would discount my feelings... The good thing is that I feel less crazy because he is finally beginning to understand where I was coming from.
