Butting in here as an ocasional lurker/poster.

The statement what else in life can make a man that happy IMHO is the key.

Unless a man is happy within himself and without anyone he can and will never be really happy because he is relying on someone else to GIVE him his sense of self.

By expecting your W to desire you in order to feel really happy you truly never will be cemar...never.

Its not about the lack of desire here or the great sex its way more deep IMHO.

I both love AND desire my H....its wonderful that he feels that way about me too.

However there are many other things that give me EQUAL pleasure in life itself.

shmagic