Better late than never?

[MichelleLT]

I'm sorry to see you posting again. I'm also a bit curious what has been going on with you.

Did you buy the motorcycle? How did that go?

Did she withdraw the D papers? Why or why not?

Do you think you have been falling back into old patterns and that is why she is having second thoughts? Or do you think she is still working through her own confusion and this is about her and now you (in which case space and validation are your only real options as far as I can tell). Keep in mind that most of the people in piecing can testify there are fits and starts, some weeks where it's 2 steps forwards and 1 or 2 or even 3 backwards.

Would it be a new/continued 180 for you to go on this camping trip by yourself?

While you may not be pressuring her overtly, she may be feeling pressured by the general Valentine's Day atmosphere, the tradition of the camping trip, or just her own thoughts.