Two weeks ago on my b-day my S8 told me if he could only have one wish it would be to have his family back.
Poor thing! I say that all the time too My D10 doesn't talk about it much either.
It really is completely self-centeredness. My XH even said to me that it was about time he started thinking about himself for once in his life...ha ha...it's pretty much always been that way.
Well, at least we don't have to deal with the self-centeredness anymore. Leave that to their new little wenches