I think it is important to find a lawyer that you are comfortable with. Interview a few of them. I talked to a number on them and went with the guy who understood exactly what I wanted. He is there to protect me and the kids, not to hurt my W. The guy has actually sent me a couple of emails just to see how I am doing. Imagine that, a lawyer with a soul.
Kerry and SPM are right. Detaching helps a lot. I need to work on it as well. When I'm on board, life is much better.
