Ladydi, My W is not very religious (nor am I). However, during our last conversation she told me that she plans on going to church this Sunday (anniversary of her sister'S death). She has not told anyone but me about it. She plans on going alone. I told her if she wanted me there with her I would be happy to accompany her. Actually I would love to show my support, however, I don't want to be pushy either. Any thoughts on how i can bring this up again would be appreciated.