H says "they're your ghosts and you need to deal with them as you see fit" So I did.




I am glad you did, JenInVen!

At least now you can concentrate on YOUR family and problems and don't have
to deal with your mother. And I am sure you will find the way to work things out with your dad!

I am posting in "Narcissistic mothers and fathers" and they are very supportive.
It's just when it comes to MLC issues, I find it not so helpful to post there. Naturally!
What did I know about MLC 2 years ago? sigh.

So, I will vent about my NM sitch out there and keep the MLC issues for DB:)

Good luck to you too.

Stella.

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08