Yeah. You have to watch it.... remember how you'd ask me all the time about my tendency to care too much?

As for bad behavior... I am responsible for my bad behavior. No one else is. It helps when you have friends, sometimes, who are willing to shove your face in it, if need be, because they care for you... even if it hurts you. Sometimes we get lost so deep in our own self-pity we have no awareness of our bad behavior. How often do we see it in SSMs afterall?

I don't think your xbf has a clue. Not saying you haven't tried to tell him... but sometimes it takes shoving someone's face in it, kwis? And from personal experience... \:\) ... you are entirely capable of shoving faces in it, when you need to. \:\) I say that kindly and with personal thanks... so don't be hurt... k?