Lil:

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I see your point, corri, and I agree with it. I was just having the insight that I didn't see me and bf as two humans in this scenario, but as a human and a wounded animal for whom I had to make all sorts of allowances and excuses. Interesting!


Yes. Yes. Yes. Head nod all over the place. That is how I approached xH. Need we say more.

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Clearly he is a human, too, and responsible for his behavior.


Absolutely.