BND, how interesting. I feel like this is the path my XH and OW are taking now. My XH never believed in V-day either and he says things to OW that he never said to me.
I have a daughter who is soon to be 11. How old was your D20 when you divorced? What do you mean when you say "she sees it for what it is"? I'm curious because daddy is D10's hero right now and it makes me sick that she does not know the whole truth. I make it a point to never degrade him in front of her and in fact I try to give compliments...but, for her not to know why he has left kills me sometimes. She is looking up to the wrong man!
