Around here L want $250 for a 1 time visit. They don't give anything away for free.
Good point about detaching. I need to make sure not to call him for anything. I did have to sign the paper and fax it to him so I couldn't get around that one.
He has a key to the house and comes and goes when he pleases. I don't want to change the locks because I'm afraid if I do that then he'll quit giving me money and I can't afford our home on my salary.
He used to come and shower after I'd left for work until they moved to his new office and he has a shower in his office so he doesn't do that anymore. I did remove his soap, shampoo, and towel from our bathroom. I also cleared the top of his vanity and night stand. I don't know if he's seen it but helps me not to have any of his reminders.
I haven't mentioned anything about our M, R or OW (I even called her by her name the last time we spoke) in about a month.
I did get an email from H yesterday wondering when S15 and I would be returning from our trip to my Dad's at Easter time. I believe he could have waited a few weeks to ask me that one. I think he was just thinking about me and wanted some sort of contact with me yesterday. Maybe I'm just reaching here or just wishful thinking. I just emailed a reply to him of I'm not sure yet.
