I am sorry to read of the recent development regarding the restraining order and your inability to see your kids. I hope that this will be resolved and you will be cleared to have visitation with them again.
I hope your W's friends will be able to get her to open up and see the errors in her decision making. Hopefully some involvement will be a good thing.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally