One more thing I wanted to add...

Those friends of my W's are now, I think, intending to become more actively engaged with her. I don't know whether this is good or bad, as pressure is pressure, regardless where it is coming from.

I am hopeful that something will come of it. I am hopeful that an independent third party, someone W trusts (or someone she used to trust anyway, in her previous life) will help her see. Is this a pipe-dream? Not sure. These women seem as shocked and dismayed as I am about the course my wife has chosen.

But I am also concerned that it will just push her away further.


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....