CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[BEAUTYandWAH]

Kiki
I am soo with you. There are million reasons for me to step in the between my H and OW. And there is only one reason to stop me, which I don't want him push away.

My H may not fall in the the 'normal' category and I do think he like to be chased by women and he like to be the center of attention no matter where he is. At the same time, he likes to be free and single. He told me that he liked the attention from her.


I am 'cool', lay back, not passionate wife and he didn't like it. He says " you are too proud and strong independent woman" which is somewhat true. Sometimes I feel like 'I don't wanna chase him, he needs to treat me great, I will not do something something until he does it first.."


I am ready to be single mom and live without him. I don't NEED him but I want him and I still love him (...sometimes) sometimes I am sooo p***ed o** and hate him for what he has done).

I read DBing and many threads and I am afraid to make mistake. So I am in the both side. but I have some ideas when and if the time comes....

Beuaty