Have you flat out asked her what her definition of space is?
I shouldn't talk to her on IM, and I shouldn't call her. Of course, she can IM me at her whim, then get annoyed when it turns into a conversation.
She is pretty unclear about spending time together - She complained last night that we've spent a lot of time together recently, but she said she didn't know when I asked if she would prefer if we didn't do dinner together and stuff throughout the week.
I just don't think she wants to be pressured, or feel like she is under the microscope, because she really has no clue what she is doing. Maybe if we can spend some time together and she can start to relax again, she might get over that. She just seems to want to withdraw from everyone right now - That said, she told me she had lunch today with her pregnant lesbian friend. Better than OM I guess.
We've been down this road before - We bounced back. I imagine we'll bounce back again in a week or two.
