Have you flat out asked her what her definition of space is?

The title of your last few threads are so appropriate - you really have a confused WAW. My W is also a member of this mysterious club.

Now that my W indicates she is considering seeing a counselor, I have found out that the Author/Psychologist that wrote "The Walk Out Woman: When Your Heart is Empty and Your Dreams Are Lost" has his practice in our area. I might suggest W give him a call.