How did you survive last night? I'm sure it was tough but you will become stronger each day.
I gave my S's and S19's girlfriend some candy. I had a couple of glasses of wine with my friend/neighbor and a nice dinner with S15, my friend and her 2 kids. My friends H who is out of town on a job sent her 5 dozen roses. I've never seen such a huge arrangement. My friend asked my S15 how he liked her flowers and he said what flowers? I said You didn't see the rose bush in the living room? LOL
S15 is "going with" her D14. S15 was so cute. When he came over he was hiding a box of chocolates behind his back so my friend and I couldn't see and went and gave it to her D. Too cute!
2nd, every day is a new day for us. We have to remember to charish our time with our kids, work on our GAL's and love ourselves. With or without our H's we will be stronger women.
I believe that we learn something from every situation we are put into. Honestly, I'm trying to figure out what I'm learning with this situation that H has put me in. Is it that I will survive this situation that H has put me in, is it that I will come through this and be a stronger woman, or maybe it is that I've learned some valuable lessons about myself with the help of DB. I've just started this new journey but I believe that I am learning all of these. I know that it is difficult to see right now but with patience and prayer I think we can both say that we will learn at least these 3 things. Who knows, maybe we'll learn even more.
Try and have a nice weekend. I know the weekends are so hard because you don't have work to distract you like on weekdays but enjoy the boys and do something nice for yourself this weekend.
