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Hi
Your H is confused
If he is an alcoholic and in MLC he must be doubly confused
You are doing well
He seems like he says you need to move on, but he cant
and maybe he is justifying his choices like Ive heard many do
with
you are better off without me but he cant leave
Mine cant really leave either
he is sober but still delusional
basicly they wish they could move on into a new life, but something pulls them back
maybe b/c they havnt really grieved this old life and M
they think they can walk away..maybe freedom is nice for a while but what do they do with their feelings
they stuff everything by drinking,running playing making friends all to fill up the hole and they end up in the same place stuck
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow