T Hi Your H is confused If he is an alcoholic and in MLC he must be doubly confused You are doing well He seems like he says you need to move on, but he cant and maybe he is justifying his choices like Ive heard many do with you are better off without me but he cant leave Mine cant really leave either he is sober but still delusional basicly they wish they could move on into a new life, but something pulls them back maybe b/c they havnt really grieved this old life and M they think they can walk away..maybe freedom is nice for a while but what do they do with their feelings they stuff everything by drinking,running playing making friends all to fill up the hole and they end up in the same place stuck peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow