Update: My H text me at 12:47 a.m. on Valentines day morning and said: "I know its terribly awkward, but I am probably going to stay in touch until its not welcomed, I am sorry". Then he text again @ 1:15 a.m. : "I feel like I am the only one communicating, it infuriates me, I apologize, but I think it sucks".
So finally I text him back @ 1:30 a.m. and said: "I am sorry you feel that way, but this is hard for me too, and I am doing my best to move on, I will always be your friend and you can always call me".
The next morning I got three more texts in a row around 7:00 a.m. that said: 1) I'm sorry I bothered you.I drank too much whisky last night. I wish you the best of everything. 2)Happy valentines day too! 3)Sorry to stiffle your day, just keep on keeping on. I am just a drunk, you are way better off with out me! you are very level headed".
So I text him back: "apology accepted, and Happy Valentines day to you too"!
Then this morning I woke up and got a voice message from him some time between 6:00 a.m. and 7:00 a.m. that said: "Do you remember a few summers back when we were all hanging out on several boats of our friends, and you sat in Tim's boat and caught that fish with him? well that was the first time I saw you really genuinely happy in a long time. It must mean something, so I am happy that you are moving on and doing well, and I just wanted to point that out".
What total crap, I was only happy cuz it was the first fish I caught since I was 12 yrs old and he is acting like I had an affair with this guy or wanted to or something. What the heck does he mean by all of this. This is also not the only time that he has brought this up and he said before that he thought that I liked Tim more than a freind which I do not & we hardly ever spoke to each other. My H has completely lost it. He is projecting his own low self esteem problems onto me. I did not respond to that message, as I feel it is just bull crap alligations that he is using to justify his reasoning for leaving me. UUUHHHHGGGG!!!!! TIPPER
