Mo... I'm sure I fit into one of those camps you were disparaging... and I am so sorry if my 'caution' regarding men has rubbed off a bit too much on you.
However, I gotta go with the other girls on this one; you are a really cool, kind chick, with lots and lots to offer, and you ARE NOT a freak... I understand tailspins They suck, especially when they are in regard to men, in regard to a highly intelligent, HD woman, who has just recently undergone major life changes.
Out of curiosity... what hopes did you have for Valentine's Day that got so squashed?
They suck, especially when they are in regard to men, in regard to a highly intelligent, HD woman, who has just recently undergone major life changes.