I so do want to call him, since we were getting to the point of speaking at least two to three times a day. His calling me keep in mind not the other way around, unless I had something to really tell him.

Will i call him, absoulutely not. Why, nothing in it for me except silence on my end of the phone.

Do i just keep like this with the silent treatment? or do i start to talk at some point? and talk as in like about fluff, with weather, etc?

bear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce