Not that anyone cares about the minute-by-minute dealings with me and my H :), but he just emailed me "you're welcome to come hang Sunday" and it felt great to respond that I had plans, but I'd probably swing by to say goodnight to the kids. (He's with them for an extra night because Monday's a school holiday.)
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09