OMG don't do it, I called my H's OW he wasn't upset and did say he's not seeing her anymore of course I will never know now! It will backfire on you and he will resent you even more, let him do the things he has to do and if he changes his mind and your still there then let it be! Leave him alone that and patience has been the hardest thing for me!! It's been 17 months and I'm still trying I still have hope!
I know what your going through work on yourself! God Bless....
