So I called him and told him I thought about it and realized I was really looking out for him and not us. I told him he told me to look out for me and i need to.
H said..well, Im not divorcing you then. I can't afford to. Im putting everything off.
I said, H you cant d othat..you still have to pay me..He said he would.
I said you dont understand..D7 needs a normal life and that is what I want for her.I cant take vacations or anything. h said Well,
H said that he canot afford to pay his lawyer and he is not going thru with the divorce.
I told him not is not legal.
We werent arguing..I was trying to be civil.
H said he is not trying to be an ahole but he just cant afford to pay me.
i told h we could settle if he would budge and he said he wasnt budging.
When we hung up itold him we would talk later and he said ther eis nothing left to talk about i said ok, bye and he hung up>
