Who is they? And how do you think it gets better? Better because you detach from them or because some sense somehow creeps back into their brain and they see how hurtful they are being and how much they are destroying their own and everyone else's lives around them? I think it appeals to me to contact OW H because it feels like I'm DOING something. I am so tired of him having all of the control and waiting until he feels like he's ready to take some sort of action. Am I the only one who thinks like this?
Me: 38 H: 41 D13 D10 S7 M: 15 years T: 17 years Discovery of EA: 10/07 Suspected PA Trial separation: 1/31/08