CONTACTING OW/OW'S HUSBAND

[kikidee]

I feel like I'm at my rope's end. I am so sick of the denials from my recently separated H. I just want to get it all out in the open and finally have some truth. Does anyone have any opinions on contacting the OW's husband to let him know of what's going on? I am so angry. I know it sounds juvenile but I just don't think it's fair that she continues on in her life without having to take responsibility for screwing with my H's head, leading him on and placing me in a position of questioning his every move. I feel as though her family has the right to know that she is being unfaithful. I really want to call and find out if there is any way that he wasn't with her on Monday night, as per his story. Does anyone have any advice???