Beginning again like a newbie

[ACJ]

Just had a touch of deja vu! A guy from the local karate club came knocking at my door to try to drum up support for the club. He didn't need to give me the details, H used to train with/work for them. The last time they came knocking was when they were new to the area and my son was 6. He had just asked the day before if he could do karate.

Ironically H met OW through this very same club. Not quite sure how I feel about this. At first I thought it was funny and even sent a TM to the guy who used to be Hs boss when he worked for them telling him how funny I thought it was. However, now I feel a bit tearful b/c it almost feels like someone is trying to rub my nose in it. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I suppose it could've been worse. OW used to be one of those 'door knockers' it could've been her knocking on my door (although I don't think either she or H are doing karate at the moment). Even more ironically karate was the one thing H refused to compromise on when he came home last time. He trained 3 nights a week all I wanted him to do was cut it down to 2.