Thanks for sharing, JenInVen, and ((((((((hugs)))))))))))

You did the right thing and I know exactly how you felt afterwards.

I've done it twice, and both times I was called immediately thereafter to the
"deathbed". First time by my aunt, second time by NM's doctor. So I gave up.

I guess, if your Mother listened to you and respected your decision,
she must have loved you. My mother never loved me and I wish I'd come to that conclusion earlier in my life.

I'm afraid I'd need to put a restraining order on her to get the same result:)

however, now with my R and M in such danger, my NM is moving to the end
of the queue. Finally!


I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08