Yep...you gave him too much...friend or not...if you had a friend making stupid mistake after stupid mistake...dragging you down in their drama...would you really listen to them in a drunken blither about how sad they feel when they caused you even more sadness???...no, I don't think so...I would have been nice...I might even have offered him a ride home (via a taxi or if I felt like driving)...no conversation about his sordid affairs...he needs to sober up and deal with his life like an adult...that is what I would have told him when I dropped him off at home!
Your being sucked back into the vacuum...OW has emailed you about the break-up (like she needed to do that)...he has whined at you about...licking his wounds at TKD...then getting drunk and calling you for attention...suck suck suck...that is all this is...and you will feel sucked dry in no time if you don't hold boundries with THEM...
