I agree with Sue here, any negative thought or comment very easily overshadows the positives. If nothing else, consider his hesitation/remarks a sign that he is being cautious and wants to take things slowly.
I know that I become so eager to get things moving that any bit of foot-dragging gets very frustrating. I take a step back though and see how far we have progressed and tell myself "okay, I can do this."
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