I understand what you are saying about friends still including H. Like they are accepting and condoning what he is doing. I always wanted friends to totally shun him and make him pay for what he has done. I am sure people don't respect your H for what he has done but they don't want to get involved too much.

I am jealous you are in your skinny jeans!!! When H left I lost 30 lbs and felt so good physically...it was the devastation diet. Now that I am preggo I have put alot back and unless this is one huge baby, I don't think I am walking out of the hospital 45 lbs lighter! I will have some work to do. I am sure your H noticed.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!