I'll just give my 2 cents. I know how let down you must feel by his comment. Look at the brighter side of it. He did think you had great talks and worked out some issues. He must have seen changes in you too. You've made a lot of changes and that's a positive. Maybe he's just a big tired from the traveling and being away from you guys, although he may not admit it.
I think you're doing great and it sounds like you have a wonderful time together.
It's very, very difficult for us going through this. The negatives pop out like bolded print. You are doing WONDERFUL.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day