I too wonder where IC is going, but I will play along...
"B" for sure. While I would like to think, given the facts you have laid out that I would answer "A" the reality is that I project my own situation onto on that has skeletal facts like that one. And in my situation, if I left my wife it would be because I finally gave up after her not making any real effort for years on end. In such a case, her moving on that quickly would be a sign that I never got through to her and would leave me even more frustrated. But, I am not going to give up and at some point, she is going to start making an effort, and I am going to win the lotto soon, and this fall I will have a candidate for President I am excited about (ok, that one is not realistic, I admit)...
What's up with the scenario, IC?
PF
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"