Yes the anger is what is the hardest to get over. When you feel yourself getting angry go do something for yourself or to take your mind off it. I remember a few years ago H pointed out to me that when I get P***ed I clean the bathroom. Now that I have someone come in to clean I find myself washing my face when i get miffed. I find that looking at myself in the mirror can calm me down...odd I know but it works.
Today H came by to pick up some stuff for work. He told me that he promised our friends son (who just turned 16) that he'd take him out to eat tonight. H said "we can go to a movie after if you like". Then he proceeded to make the plans for the evening. Ok the teen will be there but right now I don't care. H could have easily have planned without me but he included me. Hopefully alls not lost.
Now for some major DBing tonight.
Last edited by JenInVen; 02/15/0803:16 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
