You might want to shop around for a new thearapist if you W does not think this one is doing her any good.
No - It's not that. W just finds it very emotionally draining. She has been to a couple of therapists over the years, and it's pretty much the same for all of them. W never really deals with things, so I think she has a tough time when she has to face up to a lot of stuff.
She seems to like this one, although I've not talked to her much about what they discuss.